There should be a law of nature dealing with the fact that
things seem to pile up. It might even be the Fifth Law of Thermodynamics. When
bad things happen they come in herds and the good news in flocks. It’s actually
a singularity when one bad or good thing happens. To some extent this
is understandable. Say you’ve been turned down for an important job. You're more likely to be in a bad mood and experience road rage which can lead to an
accident or uncomfortable confrontation that leaves you feeling even worse than
if you'd gotten the job. Or you might go
home and fight with your wife or partner and end up leaving scars or
even in a huff saying things you didn’t mean that cause the relation to break
up. Conversely, let’s say you got the job, you're more likely to succeed with
that person with whom you wanted to get into a relationship AND you might get
that rent stabilized apartment you’ve coveted thrown in with the bargain. The
positive attitude that emerges on the heels of your success leads to further
success. It’s kind of the way money works. The rich get richer since they
always have money to invest, while the poor get poorer simply because they have
to use up every cent they have to survive. As the old adage goes, one door closes, another closes.
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