One usually associates breaking up with adolescence. Disillusion follows a romanticized perfection. Actually one sign of a certain degree of maturity is being able to tolerate the gray zone. Fifty Shades was a play on the wrong word. Imagine Fifty Shakes of Gray rather than Grey. Later in life and particularly in old age human beings become cranky. That’s not a term in the lexicon of most gerontologists, but there's literally no other word for it. Most people with their secret pipe dreams are jerks. Who wants to spend another evening with the so-called friend who only talks about their self? It can be a problem since everybody is increasingly in their own world. On this last point about which there are no age limits, one wonders if it isn’t the Russians. Have they put something in the water which makes people jammer on?
